Welcome to my blog. If you're addicted to books, like I am, then you've come to the right place. I mostly write about books and my experiences reading them. These are very personal book reviews. (If you can even call them book reviews...) I’m a true believer that none of us lives in a vacuum. When you read a book, watch a movie, listen to a song, etc., you absorb that art form into your life experience, and it changes you. But you also change it, because no two people see anything the same way. The way I interpret a novel may be totally different from the way you will. It’s still the same novel, but the meaning for each of us is unique. Once you express that meaning, it changes the art. So these posts are about how these books fit into my life. I’d love to hear how they fit into yours. Please make comment and share your experience.
Showing posts with label sister stories. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sister stories. Show all posts

Monday, April 30, 2012

Review of Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen


During my stay-at-home-mom years, I had a few favorite movies that I watched over and over again.  They may have been entertainment while I sat nursing a baby, or they were the background noise as I cooked and cleaned and did laundry and changed diapers.  There are too many to list them all, but the BBC six episode min-series version of Pride and Prejudice was one of my go-to DVDs.  It’s 5 hours long, so I could never watch it all in one sitting, but because I knew it by heart, it didn’t matter.  I could start it and stop it at any point and if I was called away for kid-duties, it was okay, because I knew every line, every scene in my head.  My pre-school age son even called it “The Mr. Darcy Show” because it was such a regular in our house. 
Pride and Prejudice [Special Edition] [2 Discs] [DVD]
I’ve owned a copy of the book for years, have skimmed it many times, but never have I picked it up and read it cover to cover.  I knew I would like it, love it even.  But considering the book was published 199 years ago, I didn’t think it would be a crack book. OMG! Was I wrong!  Once I started it for the BABBs, I couldn’t put it down.  I devoured the last 350 pages in less than a day and finished it in no time flat.  And I loved every word.

I’ve always said I much prefer to see the movie first, because if you love the movie, chances are you’ll love the book too and the movie won’t be so much of a disappointment than if you do it the other way.  It was hard to imagine that I’d like a book more than I love my BBC mini-series.  I didn’t think there was any way I’d think the book was better.  But it was.  Of course it was.  Not that I in any way find my beloved mini-series lacking.   In fact, if anything, I now appreciate it even more as an expert adaptation.  They were so true to the dialogue in the book, so faithful to the course of the novel that I found myself nodding in approval in numerous places, acknowledging the BBC’s portrayal of a scene or they way they condensed several weeks in the book, etc.  It was fun to have the real book version in my hand and now feel like I know it just as well. 

I always feel awkward “reviewing” a piece of classic literature.  Somehow it seems terribly redundant; as if there was anything I could say about this book that hasn’t already been said over and over again.  It wouldn’t have endured for 199 years if it wasn’t fabulous.  Even doing a plot summary seems silly.  Who (honestly) doesn’t know the story?  Anyone?  So I’ve been having a little fun with some of the basic ideas of the story—alliteration and rhyme.  Comment if you can come up with better ones…

Five fortuneless females ferret for fellows

Lizzy loves licentious Lieutenant then learns large lesson

Darcy disinterested due dim dowry

Caroline catty, Collins captivated, Kitty capricious…

Joyful Jane wants jovial joining

Bingley beguiled but buddies boggle with bogus bunk

Elizabeth enchants, Darcy recants

And they all live happily ever after. 

Ratings  (For an explanation of my rating factors, please visit the Rating System Key page.)

Crack Factor 10.  Really, it’s a 10. 

PeopleFactor – 10.  Austen’s gift is how well she can convey a character’s personality.  And she gives you a cast of characters that is incredibly rich.  From dull and annoying Mr. Collins, to the arrogant Caroline Bingley to the conceited, condescending Catherine DeBourgh, Austen leaves you in no doubt about these characters.  And I love that she gives you just as many that are odious as likeable.   

Story Telling Factor – 9.5.  I was worried that the book would be kind of rambling and boring, just like the lives of these 19th century rich people, who have no occupation other than to exist and be waited on.  And while the plot seems simple, there is enough drama in this book to propel it forward quickly. 

Writing Skills Factor – ?  Okay, so this was written 199 years ago.  But I was never lost or confused by the language and actually enjoyed it more than books that are only 50 years old.

Bad Ass Babe Factor – 9.9.  Lizzy is totally Bad Ass. 

Hotter than Adam Factor – 9.5.  If Darcy isn’t the epitome of a man who can learn from his mistakes and become the partner he needs to be for his beloved, then I don’t know who is. And he’s hot, too.  

Total Rating 9.78

Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Review of Shanghai Girls by Lisa See

Sister.

If you have a sister, that word probably brings a few emotions to mind.  Sister relationships are fascinating and multi-faceted.  They can be supportive and loving or antagonistic and critical.  And they can be all at once. 

I’m thankful that I have a fabulous relationship with my sister.  I can call my sister and talk for hours.  Back when we were both stay-at-home moms, we often called each other 3-4 times a day, for all kinds of reasons, from mundane to profound.  I trust her completely.  I know she’s there for me, no matter what.  It’s a comfort to really understand the depth of your relationships, in your heart, in your mind, in your gut. 

But every relationship has its boundaries.  They all have places where you don’t go.   My two closest girlfriends each have sisters with whom they are extremely close and yet, there are some things they just don’t talk about with each other.  Even my sister and I, for all the closeness and supportiveness in our relationship, have boundaries, too.  I imagine all relationships have them, no matter how close or significant. 

 

Shanghai Girls by Lisa See is a story about the Chin sisters, Pearl and May.  Their relationship is as complex as any sister relationship, with love and support and betrayal and heartbreak, and quite a lot of antagonism.    It begins in 1937 Shanghai.  We follow their lives through the Japanese invasion and their escape to America, to find them begrudgingly settled in San Francisco during WWII and afterwards.  It spans several decades in the characters’ lives, and through many life stages.  Even with a rich historical and cultural backdrop, the sister and family dynamics are what I found most interesting throughout this book. 

The Chin sisters’ relationship is strewn with jealousy.  Each felt that the other one had it better than she did, or one was the parents’ favorite, or had the better husband or the better job, or one sacrificed more than the other…it got a little annoying a few times because I just couldn’t relate.  I don’t see my own sister the way Pearl and May see theirs—with as much resentment as love.  This did however, give the BABBs much to discuss---as we all have family and everyone can identify with a family story.  Mostly I pitied the Chin sisters because all that hurt and resentment held them back.

Shanghai Girls is a thoroughly enjoyable read and very good historical fiction, even though the subject material and setting are often disturbing and depressing. 

Ratings  (For an explanation of my rating factors, please visit the Rating System Key page.)


Crack Factor – 8.0. 

Tears Shed Factor –  N/A. There’s plenty of drama in this book but I didn’t find it emotional, although I imagine many people would.

Distraction Factor – 9.25.  Shanghai Girls is a haunting tale.  Just like in See’s Snow Flower and the Secret Fan, (one of my favorite books) there are images from this story that I’ll never forget. 

Enrichment Factor – 9.0.  Immigrant stories are frequently stories of hardship and discrimination.  I really wonder if there was every any group that came here without it.  The Chinese immigrants in this story had it pretty bad; they maneuvered through the anti-Japanese sentiments during WWII and then the anti-communist rampage right afterwards.  I love fiction that gives me new knowledge and understanding of history and culture.  This time and place was something I’d never studied before.

PeopleFactor – 8.5. See wrote the book in the first person.  All the characters and events are narrated by Pearl, which definitely adds some limitation as you can’t always get inside the heads of the other characters.  I don’t see that as a problem here, because through Pearl’s eyes, the reader gets a very good sense of all the characters and See crafts them like onions, with layers that Pearl peels away over time to reveal just how complex each one is.  As soon as you think you’ve got them all figured out, See gives us a little more insight and…You’ll change your mind about everybody over and over again.  It made for a more interesting read because the characters and their relationships evolve so much over time. 

Story Telling Factor – 8.5. The majority of the BABBs had a couple of complaints about this book: 1) It ends very abruptly, and 2) they didn’t always like how See turned the plot. On a whole, however, I found See’s plot twists quite pivotal and necessary to keep the pace of the story going and bring certain characters to their destinies and certain plot lines to their climaxes.  But I do have to admit the ending did tick me off.  Apparently See had to set it up for the sequel:  Finding Joy.  Why write one book, when you can sell two at twice the price?

Writing Skills Factor – 8.5.  See’s writing is raw.  It’s very simple and clear and to the point.  That rawness adds to the distraction factor as well.  She doesn’t leave out the nasty and upsetting details.

Bad Ass Babe Factor –  I’m abstaining from this rating.  I didn’t really like Pearl or May that much as people, even though they were well developed characters.  In the Bad Ass Babe arena, however, Pearl gets points for sheer endurance and their mother gets Mama Bear points. 

Total Rating: 8.625